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by Jeffrey T. Brownstein, 6/6/08
If you're not being the best you can be in one area of your life, you're not being the best in ANY area.
Often, I hear people say things like, "My career is going great, but things are awful on the relationship front."
The trouble is, when we compartmentalize our lives (i.e. this piece is good, this one is bad), we create contradiction in our attraction message.
In short, you can't feel badly about one area without it affecting ALL areas. So while you may perceive your career situation as perfect and 'untouchable' - if relationships, health, or anything else is getting you down, there's no way your career isn't suffering in some way too (albeit perhaps unconsciously for you).
So how do we make sure we have a 'clean bill of attraction' in every area of life? Simple. You create whatever feelings you want ahead of time. In other words, I don't care whether you're in a passionate intimate relationship, or you haven't gone on a date in 3 years. The bottom line is you can choose to feel good or bad about either set of circumstances.
The key is to choose good feelings around them all!
As you become a master of choosing your feelings (as opposed to allowing circumstances and situations to determine your mood), you'll find your life flows easier and works better. You become 'at the source of' instead of 'at the mercy of'.
Remember, the order of getting what you want goes like this:
1. Choose your feelings
2. Get what you want
(It doesn't occur in reverse)
So the next time you're not feeling your best in some area of life, see if you can invent a different feeling in the present moment. Trust me, you can! - the question is, will you?
Until next time...
With love,
-Jeff
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